Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Budget Wardrobe Building: It's Time to Shop!

So we are coming to the end of the Budget Wardrobe Building Series. If you are just joining us, click here for the rest of the series (scroll to the bottom to go chronological style). There are a few more things to discuss. Now, only you know what your budget is, and what your list of needs and wants includes, but I can give a few general tips that might make getting what you need easier.

Spend more on pieces that will last multiple seasons, and items where quality really varies by price range. For example, a basic tee at Gap will cost you $19.99 and a similar one is $8 at Target. The difference in quality doesn't merit the difference in price. On the other hand, certain items like outerwear will have more meaningful quality to price relationships. So, make sure to get the most for your money.

Look for quality in shoes, especially those that are more than just special occasion wear. In the category of footwear, price and comfort are often directly related. Non-leather materials don't adjust to the shape of the foot and will often rub and cause blisters. Cheap heels are often unbearably uncomfortable. Don't worry if your budget is small, if you shop smart you can get great shoes for the price of awful ones, but more on that in a minute.

Look before you buy. If I know that I want something, I start looking for it in a multitude of places online, just to get a feel for variety in style and price range. There are a thousands of variations of the pencil skirt, the blazer, the little black dress. Details do make a difference; get a feel for them before you take the financial plunge.

Browse in person. Start at the highest end and work your way down. See the styles and feel the fabric that cost top dollar. Like I said before, details make a difference. Browsing should be an education; it will help you know quality when you see it. This knowledge is invaluable in recognizing the best thrift store finds and avoiding the pitfalls of cheaply made yet expensive goods (yep, they're out there, in abundance).

And related to the previous tip... Know what real leather looks and smells like, and see the difference between high quality and low quality leather. Similarly, all wool (even 100% wool) isn't created equal. Be aware that there can be huge variations in quality even in the same material.

Look outside the box. Don't limit yourself to the usual department stores. Once you know exactly what you want, hit the thrift stores, resale shops (like Clothes Mentor), consignment shops, ebay, etsy, and estate sales (great for unique accessories!).

Some people are weirded out by "used" shoes, whether from the thrift store or a consignment shop. I encourage you to reconsider this position. I have often seen like new or new with tags shoes in such places, so it's worth a look. I would advise you to avoid anything that has signs of wear or was cheap to begin with.

Check the clearance racks. As far as regular retail, I have often had excellent luck with the clearance rack at DSW. Sign up for the free loyalty program and you will occasionally receive $$ off coupons. I combined a couple such rewards (one issued for my birthday, another for accumulated points from previous purchases) and ended up paying $19.99 for a pair of leather heels that were originally $100.

Buy at the end of the season. Get what you need most urgently, but don't be afraid to start thinking ahead to the next several seasons. Last fall, I purchased a pair of leather sandals from PIPERLIME that originally retailed for $75. Because of drastic markdowns, I paid a third of that price. Is the wool of your winter coat worn? Coats are drastically reduced right now; start looking!

Sign up for email notices from your favorite retailers. Never miss a coupon code or sale. This practice also helps you get a feel for how big and how often sales occur. Such knowledge is key when deciding whether to buy or hold out for a lower price.

Check into store cards. Do you use a credit card frequently? It seems that more and more people are doing so for everyday purchases such as gas and groceries because debit cards are more vulnerable to theft. Let me be very clear, I never recommend going into debt for clothing, or paying interest on credit card balances. Yet, if you regularly use a card and aren't getting much in the way of rewards you might want to look into a different credit card. Gap, Banana Republic, and Old Navy cards offer rewards that can be used for any of those three retailers and Athleta and PIPERLIME, and also special cardholder sales. Other retailers also often offer rewards for in and out of store purchases, so if you regularly buy items in such a place, it might be worth looking into. Please note that store cards often have higher interest rates than other credit cards, but if you don't carry a balance that fact is irrelevant.


Do you have any tips to share with the budget wardrobe builder?







Monday, April 1, 2013

What I Wore: Easter

Happy Easter!  I'm going to go spare on the words today and link up with this lady for an Easter fashion parade. I'm always a little unsure about Easter outfits, as my regular go to's involve lots of black on black, black on navy, or black on charcoal, often with a little camel thrown in to lighten the mood. I threw this together at the last minute. It's pretty basic, not too dark, yet not too "not me." The top is pale blush with a simple floral pattern, and lace detailing on the shoulders and around the neckline. The skirt is a muddy gray (okay, maybe that's a color I just made up, just go with it..). The heels are my usuals and coordinate with one of the colors in the floral pattern. What do you think?







Outfit details: Skirt: The Limited via Clothes Mentor // Top: Express via Salvation Army // Patent Heels: Jones New York via DSW  // Watch: Citizen Eco Drive  (gift) // Pearl stud earrings (gift) 







Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Budget Wardrobe Building: The Capsule Concept

After organizing your closet last week, and thinking about your needs and wants (for your wardrobe), I'm sure that you are raring to get moving with the planning process. Since this series is about wardrobe building on a budget, I want to introduce you to the capsule wardrobe concept.

The term hails from the 1970's and the mind of Susie Faux, a British shop owner, author, and personal style guru of sorts. At it's essence, a capsule wardrobe is a collection of items that won't quickly go out of fashion, that can be updated occasionally with seasonal pieces. The total number varies based on lifestyle and budget, but the general principles are less is more, quality over quantity. The elements originally suggested as key were trousers, a dress or skirt, a jacket, a coat, two pairs of shoes and two bags, all in neutral colors. The wardrobe was then to be rounded out with tops and accessories such as scarves, sunglasses, jewelry for a total item number between 20-25.

In the 1980's, Donna Karan brought the concept to an even greater public and level of distillation when she introduced her "Seven Easy Pieces" workwear collection. The collection consisted of a body suit, wrap skirt, chiffon blouse, longer jacket, leggings, blazer, and dress. In 2009, Karan released a collection that updated the key pieces to turtleneck, skirt, pant, jean, jacket, and coat.

So what does this mean for us budget wardrobe builders? It means that by choosing certain pieces we can create a small wardrobe, one that functions effectively for all the situations we find ourselves in, and that is both durable and current. Within our overall wardrobe, there will be smaller seasonal wardrobes, and key pieces will often work across multiple seasons. If you are just beginning the building process, creating such a wardrobe can seem overwhelming. I highly recommend beginning with your immediate needs for this season. You can break it down even further into finding eight pieces you can wear in a variety of ways right now.

So, here we go.  Keeping in mind the items that survived the culling...

Choose a color story (look here for an example).

Focus first on the basics - choosing tops and bottoms. Going for eight total, settle on a ratio (i.e. five tops / three bottoms).

Decide on a mix and match or a spectrum technique. Mix and match means that all bottoms and tops are various colors of the color story and can be worn together. Spectrum means that all the bottoms are the same color, and the tops are various colors from your color palette. 

Choose one neutral for shoes and bags.

Choose either gold or silver for bag hardware and other accessories (silver for cool complexions, gold for warm).

Once you have these eight basics working hard for you, start to look beyond your immediate needs. Think about your day to day needs and activities as they play out through the year. Go back to your note taking. Maybe Donna or Suzie's key pieces don't fit your lifestyle or personality (bodysuit, anyone?); I listed them more to give you a general starting point for pieces to consider rather than a list to copy. This is the point where you need to decide your key pieces.

Even if you don't have the money to go out and purchase them now, you need to make a list of what would make your wardrobe most functional. If you do have the resources immediately, keep in mind that you want the key pieces to last, so go for the best quality you can afford and keep the colors and cut to a more classic look (anything too faddish and you won't want to wear it longer than one season). If trendy is your thing, update tops and accessories frequently.

For example, for someone creating a personal casual wardrobe (for a four season climate) on a budget, I would make the following list:

KEY PIECES:

1 pair bootcut jeans (to be worn with heels or boots/ "date night" jeans)
1 pair straight or skinny jeans (hemmed to wear with flats)
1 pair of trousers (cropped for a fresh look)
1 skirt

1 sweater
1 blouse or button down shirt
1 twin set
1 LBD
1 casual dress

1 short jacket (blazer or other style)
1 coat
[and if you've got the first two covered] 1 belted trench

1 pair of heels
1 pair of flats
1 pair of boots

1 day bag
1 clutch

3 bras: 2 nude, 1 black
1 swimsuit

OTHER ITEMS:
inexpensive v-neck tees, tanks and/or other shirts
belt
scarves
jewelry

Thanks for sticking with me this far! If you want to see wardrobe building in action, check out the  transitional and warm weather wardrobe I have been working on for myself. Also, please give me feedback!

I won't be posting on Friday because of the Holy Day. See you next week!















Monday, March 25, 2013

The Illusion of Proportion

Today I want to talk about dressing for proportionality. Proportionality is pleasing to the eye, and it draws the eyes of the beholder to the face (because no one part is "sticking out" so to speak). The only problem with proportionality is... most of us aren't! What's a girl to do? Why, create the illusion of proportionality, of course! 

This is actually easier than it sounds. The first step is knowing your measurements and your body type (see the bold portion here for a brief explanation and how to take your measurements). This info is power. You need to know where your volume naturally occurs in order to balance it out. For example, if you are a pear shape, your natural volume is in your lower body. To create the illusion of proportionality you want to minimize your lower body's appearance while creating artificial volume on top. If you are an apple shape, the opposite is true. If you are an hourglass or a box, you can also use these principles to maintain proportionality and create the illusion of a more feminine figure. 

The second step, creating volume, can be done actually (such as in the fabric and construction of a garment) or merely visually. Consider these easy pointers:


Manipulate the placement of color in your ensembles.

          - Light colors add artificial volume and draw the eye

          - Sheen adds volume

          - Dark colors de-emphasize or streamline (because they recede)

          - Monochromatic dressing streamlines

          - The eye is drawn to the point where contrasting colors meet. Avoid meeting contrasting colors 

            at your widest points.


Manipulate the placement of line in your ensembles

          - Horizontal lines (stripes, zippers, etc) can add artificial volume, but....
          
          - One strong horizontal line across the narrowest point of the waist can be flattering

          - A hemline draws attention, so think about where they fall. Unless you want legs to look wider, 

            avoid skirts that cut across the widest part of the calf or thigh (!) and long tops / jackets that hit the      widest part of the hips

          - Vertical and diagonal lines streamline
          

Manipulate the placement of pattern in your ensembles

          - Pattern adds artificial volume, especially high contrast patterns (i.e. black on white versus charcoal on light grey)

          - Solids (relative to pattern) streamline


Manipulate the placement of texture and structure in your ensembles

          - Thicker naps can add artificial volume

          - Cowls and collars can add volume, so do pleats and some pockets - place accordingly!


Now let's look at a two examples.  I recently tried on this Thakoon shift dress (at a thrift store):

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Super cute, right? The point where green meets blue hit at the widest point on my thighs and it just wasn't flattering. Not terrible, but definitely not my best look. So I didn't buy it (remember the 100% rule). This is an example of creating volume and emphasis visually. 

In the same shopping trip, I also found a "like new" J. Crew dress.  I can't find an image of the exact dress, but the one below has a similar pocket situation.

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I was so excited, but.... Again, not my best look. Why? Because the dress had cargo pockets that fell on the biggest part of my thigh, and the structure of the top portion of the dress was minimal. Let's just say the girls already need a little help to keep up with my hips. This is an example of actual volume, created by fabric and structure. Both of the dresses would probably have looked amazing on someone with an apple shape, because both would have complemented that figure with color and structure volume.

I can't end without showing you at least one thrift "keeper." Here it is:  








Notice the black geometric pattern on this dress. The pattern draws the eye to the smallest portion of my waist, and then down to the hem, without adding undue emphasis to my hips. Isn't it all so fascinating? I could go on forever, but lucky you, I won't.










Friday, March 22, 2013

Five Things

Some of you  may have seen the "Five Things" going around in blog land. For those who haven't, it's kind of a "tag you're it, quick tell us five random things about yourself!" I've been tagged by not one, but three wonderful ladies - Heather, Sheena, and Natalie. I'm honored and embarrassed that it has taken me so long to get to it. Well, here goes (and I'm unashamed to cheat by only listing five things rather than 5x2, or 5x3, it's been a rough week)...

1. I love to read, I really do. Fiction, non-fiction, you name it. Probably as a result of this fact, I only missed one question on the Verbal portion of the SAT (don't worry; I more than made up for it on the Math portion). 

2. I also read every book I was ever assigned in college. Because I liked it.

3. Speaking of college... By the time I was nearly done there I had spent a lot of time thinking about my ideal man. I kind of had a growing list of qualities in mind. Okay, let's be honest. I basically created an entire narrative of how Mr. X would need to be [including but not limited to interests, childhood experiences, education, and career] to catch my eye and hold my interest for a lifetime. I even had "a feeling" that his name would be Mike. I won't go into too much detail (you're welcome), but I figured that he would have to be an intellectual, probably a philosopher, who was into adventurous stuff like rock climbing, who loved to travel, was a little bit older than I but not too much, blah, blah, blah. 

Out of the blue, a friend called and wanted to set me up with his roommate, a new philosophy professor, just a little bit older than me, named... Mike! He sent me a pic, handsome guy in outdoor gear, looked like he had just finished a hike in the mountains. Could it be? The providence of the good Lord was finally conforming itself to my omniscient wisdom? We arranged a phone call, and... He was really easy to talk to, but there was no spark (now I'm not saying every lasting relationship is founded on the unshifting sands of spark, but there has got to be something). Mike, however, thought it went great with a capital G and asked me to send a pic and if it would be alright if he called again. Sure, I said; I thought maybe I just needed more talking to find spark. 

I didn't have a camera at the time and most phones didn't either, so I sort of forgot about the pic. And Mike never called back. Months later I ran into my friend. I suspected that Mike had gotten scared off when I didn't send a pic, so I asked my friend. No, no, he assured me, that couldn't be it. Why not? Because he had taken the liberty of giving him a pic from a youth conference that we attended when I was 16. I'm not sure what the pic looked like exactly, but I think it was something more along the lines of this: 




than this:

I was a late bloomer. Take courage all you awkward youths.

4. After the Mike debacle, my mom did comment that she wasn't surprised that there wasn't spark. In reference to the not so subtle similarities between the list and my own personality, she said, "Did you really want to spend the rest of your life with yourself?" Touché.

5. It all worked out for the best, though, because my soulmate turned out to be a handsome guy by the name of Joe who is not a philosophy professor, and is my opposite in personality. We dated for six months, got engaged, and got married six months later.  It seems fast, but I just knew. 

I knew enough to not be deterred or disturbed by the fact that random people kept asking me the same question, "Are you sure you aren't supposed to be a nun?"Who asked? The priest who was going to marry us and my pastor (individually and on separate occasions, both were polite enough to ask Joe to leave the room first), several Polish sisters from St. Faustina's order at the Divine Mercy Shrine, and the Mother Superior of a group of cloistered nuns in the Polish countryside (through the very grate, I might add!). I didn't even bat an eye, because sometimes you just know.

And there you have it folks, five things.
And now, I tag Mary, Sarah, Laura, and Kallah. I know that's only four but I am sick and quickly running out steam. 
I'll see you next week for more fun (and wardrobe building)!

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Guest Post: Natalie from CEVIchion


Today we are joined by the lovely Natalie. She puts together the best outfit boards over at CEVIchion, so I asked her to weigh in with some Easter outfit inspiration. She obliged, and I must say, she didn't disappoint. Enjoy!


What2Wear: Easter Edition

It’s finally time to break out of the winter coma!  Easter is the beginning of the Spring Transition.  It can still be pretty chilly around Easter so we can’t hop into a sundress just yet.  And since it is a wonderful day to celebrate, let's dress up a bit.

Easter Mass: Dress // Necklace // Bangles // Booties
Simply Classic: Blouse // Cardi // Skirt // Earrings // Heels
Brunch: Blouse // Capris // Belt // Necklace // Flats


1. Dress it up with something classy and perfect.  A simple pale dress with pearls (favorite set from J.Crew Factory Outlet), bangles and for a punch of fun: lace booties.

2.  Button it down with a fun pattern, keep it chic with a bright pencil skirt and throw on a lightweight cardigan that compliments both.  Since this outfit can be taken as more conservative, make it fun with metallic accessories.

3.  Brunch is the best meal of the day.  And brunch is even better on Easter Sunday.  So throw on a bright easy top with navy capris and some studded flats. Finish it off with a nude belt and a thick necklace over the shirt.

Happy Easter!


Monday, March 18, 2013

What I Wore: Sunday

Saturday I was flirting with the idea of exporting some of my winter clothes and importing some of my spring clothes into the closet and dresser (despite the snowflakes lazily floating around all day). I only ended up trying on the lighter jackets; midway through a package arrived containing a sweet note from a good friend and a cute tweed jacket with faux leather trim. 

Of course, I had to wear it the next day to Mass. I usually don't wear jeans to Mass (it looks strange beside my husband who's rockin' a suit), but I decided at the last minute to go by myself to an early liturgy so I threw this on... Dark jeans, black v-neck tee, black wrap sweater, tweed jacket, and snood (I bet you are getting tired of it by now...). What do you think? I don't know if I'm the right person to be posting What I Wore's; you can pretty accurately guess that whatever the ensemble, it will involve black on black...

And finally, a recommended part of this What I Wore Sunday Linkup is the inclusion of a Lenten reflection. I've got nothing. Okay, maybe one thing, something that dawned on me last week as I struggled to focus on prayer, struggled to drown out the many distractions that constantly beset my mind. And it is simply this: prayer is encounter, not focusing on words. As this idea sank in it became easier to forget everything else in order to be present with God. And today I came across this quote, "...prayer is the encounter of God's thirst with ours" (CCC 2560). Wow. 









Outfit details: Jeans: Old Navy // Black tee: thrifted // Black wrap sweater: Express (from my sister)  // Jacket: Target (gift) // Boots: Fugu Malibu from Piperlime // Bag: Banana Republic (gift) // Snood: homemade // Watch: Citizen Eco Drive  (gift) // Pearl stud earrings (gift)